I feel like people just need love from each parent .There are people out there that get whatever they want from their parent but they honestly just wants to spend time with them. My grandma had tough love for my mom she never said I love you to her she always hit her but my mom still loved her.My mom never said she loved me and my siblings until 3 years ago when she first said it, it warmed my whole body I felt special and I remember I was happy that day because before I thought nobody loved not even my parents cause they never said it .My dad never said he loved me and my siblings I don’t think he says it to his other family but I hope that he does.